”While clothes don’t make the woman,they certainly have an effect on her self-confidence.Which,does make the woman.”

Mary Kay Ashe

Cough!Cough! Cough! Don’t really know where to start because,I know I have been away for a long time but am back,Sorry for my lack of consistency which is due to some amazing plans I have been doing,which I will keep you posted as time goes by.

Now on my post; Have you ever been in a situation where,nothing you do, doesn’t work? Apparently I have been there,not because I was not able to do it but I didn’t trust myself.At times we fail to trust ourselves due to lack of confidence thus the attempts we make to fulfill are rendered futile.

Now confidence being a feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities,one is able to note that, it all starts with you the individual to birth out your ideas and talents no matter how small they may look.At one time, I remember  I didn’t have the confidence to start my blog,reason being, I didn’t have faith like that of  Hebrew 11.1 ”Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.Which translates to,having the assertiveness to pursue your passion despite not assured of the outcome.

Back to my story,Mmmhh! where was I? Anyway,I didn’t implement my dream of starting a blog right away despite the various informations I got from different bloggers.This was due to fear of the unknown e.g How will people react to  it?Will it be successful like that of Lucia Musau, Chiara Ferragni, denimandcateye, fashiontoast……? Will it ever be a fulltime job and bring food to the table? These were all the questions I always asked myself.But,all that changed when my Family,Partner and very close friends encouraged me that everything is possible through Christ who gives us strength.

That’s when I learnt that,sometimes we need people to push us to bring out our confidentiality and effect it.Bottom line is,it doesn’t matter what your dream is,just like Lupita,your dream is valid.Just like Rome was not built in a day,success doesn’t come also immediately but through determination, perseverance and discipline.So never be afraid to conquer your dreams.

Take the bull by the horns and be confident and know that,the race is not to the swift or the battle to the strong, nor does food come to the wise or wealth to the brilliant or favor to the learned; but time and chance happen to them all.” (Ecclesiastes 9:11)


Thanks for the visit.💕💕

Photographer – Samsonia Photography

MUA – Shila Kerubo

Shoes & Bag-Thrifted

Neckpiece -Perida House C.B.D




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